What to wear to a pre-wedding party
Casual and sturdy: dark jeans, a good top and comfortable shoes you can stand in. A traditional German Polterabend involves smashing crockery, so wear closed shoes and nothing precious.
Two outfits that work
Dark jeans, blouse, white trainers
- dark blue jeans
- cream blouse
- white leather trainers
- olive jacket
Jeans and a blouse are relaxed enough for a yard party and smart enough for photos with the couple.
Jeans, checked shirt, boots
- dark jeans
- blue checked shirt
- brown boots
- dark jacket
Jeans and boots protect your feet from broken china, and the jacket handles a cool evening outdoors.
By weather
| Hot22° and up | A light top, shorts or light trousers, and closed shoes for the broken china. |
|---|---|
| Mild10° to 21° | Jeans, a shirt and a light jacket for the evening. |
| ColdBelow 10° | A warm jacket, a hat and sturdy boots for an outdoor party. |
Do and don’t
- Wear closed, sturdy shoes
- Choose clothes that can take a splash or a bit of dust
- Bring a jacket for the evening
- Bring something to smash if the family asks: old crockery, no glass
- Bring a small gift or a card
- Wear sandals or open shoes near broken china
- Wear white or a very dressy outfit
- Bring glass, mirrors or anything that could injure someone
- Wear something you would hate to get dirty
Check the night before
- Ask the hosts what is planned and what to bring
- Check the forecast and the venue
- Put out closed shoes
- Pack old crockery in a bag if asked
- Pack a gift for the couple
Questions people ask
What is a Polterabend?
A German party the night before the wedding, where guests smash old crockery for good luck, and the couple clears it up together.
Should I bring something to smash?
If the family asks, bring old porcelain or ceramic; never glass or mirrors, which are bad luck and sharp.
Can I wear a dress?
Yes, a casual one, with closed shoes. Avoid thin soles near the china.
Should I dress up?
No. It is a casual party, and it can be loud and dusty.
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