What to wear to a civil wedding
Dress up, but keep it a little shorter and lighter than for a church wedding: a knee-length dress or a suit in a soft colour. Avoid white, and check whether a party follows the ceremony.
Three outfits that work
Knee-length dress, blazer, low heels
- dusty rose knee-length dress
- cream blazer
- nude low heels
- small tan bag
A knee-length dress with a blazer is festive for a short registry ceremony without being too formal for a small room.
Mid-grey suit, light blue shirt
- mid-grey suit jacket
- mid-grey suit trousers
- light blue shirt
- brown leather shoes
A grey suit reads as dressed up but friendly, and it works for the lunch afterwards too.
Navy midi dress, scarf
- navy midi dress with sleeves
- champagne scarf
- black low heels
- black clutch
A midi dress with sleeves stays covered and calm, and the scarf adds colour for photos.
By weather
| Hot22° and up | A lighter fabric and a blazer you can take off; shade while waiting outside. |
|---|---|
| Mild10° to 21° | The outfit as planned, with a light coat for photos outside. |
| ColdBelow 10° | A smart coat to keep on until you enter the room, and tights or warm socks. |
Do and don’t
- Dress up a little more than for a normal dinner
- Choose soft or medium colours
- Bring a layer for photos outside
- Check whether a lunch or party follows
- Arrive a few minutes early
- Wear white, ivory or anything bridal
- Come in jeans and trainers unless invited to
- Wear a very short hem or deep neckline
- Over-dress in a long gown for a short registry ceremony
Check the night before
- Check the time and place of the ceremony
- Check if an evening party follows and what to wear
- Pack confetti or flower petals if the venue allows it
- Pack the gift and a card
- Try on the outfit and sit down
Questions people ask
Is a civil wedding less formal than a church wedding?
Often it is a little shorter and smaller, but guests still dress up. When in doubt, wear what you would to a nice dinner, one step smarter.
Can I wear a suit with no tie?
Yes, for most civil weddings, but a tie shows care, and you can take it off later.
What if there is a party in the evening?
Pick an outfit that works for both, or bring a change of shoes or accessories.
What colour should I avoid?
White and cream. Keep black to a minimum unless you add colour.
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